It’s nights like tonight that remind me just how important it is to have a good group of guild friends to raid with. You end up having a lot more fun with people you regularly raid with. You know how they’re going to behave and react in a boss encounter and vice versa. You play together, learn together and you become a cohesive group that can trust each other and take on anything thrown at you. Most importantly: if you wipe (and everyone wipes, especially on new encounters) you can laugh it off and get straight back into the raid to try again.
Anyway, my evening started off quite well …

We couldn’t quite get a 25-man guild run together for Naxx so I ended up in a 10 man Naxx group with some great guys I’ve raided with before. The leader and I posted bullet-point tactics before each boss and we had an awesome tank and a couple of great healers, so we completely cleared the construct quarter without a wipe and all was going very nicely indeed…
Then we started the arachnid quarter and wiped because a couple of geniuses decided to fight the first boss while the main tank and main healer were taking a short break after the first quarter and were AFK at the entrance.
After a perfect run of the construct quarter, the very people who wanted to fight the boss without the main tank and main healer get upset and leave after one single wipe!
Later on I was invited to a 25 man Trial of the Crusader run. The raid which currently offers the best rewards in the game and also consequently some of the most difficult challenges.
After the first attempt at the first boss encounter, which we nearly complete but unfortunately wiped in phase 3, the raid leader starts shouting at the lowest DPS (who weren’t too low) and kicking them all. We wait 15 minutes for him to get new people and start again.
This time, late into phase 2, it’s clear that the person who was healing myself and a few others has died, so we’re literally all running to the edge of the room just trying not to die, but without any heals, of course we do eventually die. Then the rest wipe on Icehowl purely because we don’t have enough people to take him down.
At this point we’re all subjected to a long CAPS-FILLED lecture from the raid leader about exactly what we all did wrong, right before he kicks everyone who died just before phase 3, myself included.
Half an hour later a couple of friends who were in the group tell me that after replacing us in the raid, the third attempt was even worse than the first two and then the raid fell apart.
The moral in this evening’s events is this: Raid with people you enjoy playing with and don’t get upset when you wipe, especially when you’re attempting more challenging end-game raids. The boss encounters have been designed to be challenging and unique and that’s why the rewards are so great. Also, you shouldn’t kick people after the first attempt unless they are truly abysmal, because generally they will learn from their mistakes and do better next time.
Playing with people you know, like and trust is always so much more fun and even one rude person can ruin the fun in a raid.
So here’s to growing the guild further… Cheers!